Trauma Boss Lady

If you’re here, you probably know my story. I'm a recovering betrayed and abused ex-partner of Cam (Camille), survivor of betrayal trauma, integrity abuse, and complex PTSD. I’m an only child of an immigrant family, a compulsive foster mama and an occasional binge eater. I’m a highly sensitive, high-sensation seeking ambivert, now living with depression, anxiety, and ADHD-H. I’m basically a high functioning stress ball with resurfaced trust issues because of Cam...and yet I’m still here.

I’m new to the 12 step space (currently on step 7), but not new to recovery and surviving. These days, I’m focused on staying grounded without self-destructing or burning this fucking place down. I’m also learning how to take up space without apologizing for it. Full disclosure: my coping skills are a mixed chaotic bag, but I’m here, I’m honest, and I’m trying to do the work. My goal is to trade survival mode for something that actually feels like living, because my life has become unmanageable.